9 Comebacks for Dealing with Rude People

For some people, the reason they are alive is to offend others. Others don’t even think what they say before they say it and that’s how they often offend the people they are talking to. No matter whether it is made on purpose or not, offence is an offence and it can lead to so many troubles.

Everyone has the right to defend themselves; however, you should learn what to say and how to express yourself and to still sound positive and polite.

Finding the real words to deal with rude people can sometimes be very hard and challenging. If you want to learn how to handle your mother-in-law who can’t stop complaining about everything you do or your boss, who gives you extra work on Saturday night, read about these comebacks and use them the next time you face up with rudeness.

9 COMEBACKS that will help you handle RUDE PEOPLE

THANK YOU.

A simple “thank you” can do wonders when you face up with rudeness. It shows the other person that you didn’t let all those rude words affect you. This will make the other person immediately stop talking and they will quickly realize that their comments don’t have an effect on you.

You are the one who chooses how you would react to certain situations, so be wise! Keeping your thoughts and actions positive is the best thing you can do.

I APPRECIATE YOUR POINT OF VIEW

This is a very intelligent approach and it will show the other person that you think like an adult person. Rude comments appear as a result of the person’s insecurity and unstable personality. Show them that you communicate only with dignity and respect. If this doesn’t work, continue with the next step.

LET’S PUT AN END TO THIS CONVERSATION

If you notice that you are too angry to give a response in a civil way, put an end to the conversation. If you continue talking you would cause some permanent changes to the relationship by losing control of yourself and if you accept the person’s comments you are going to disrespect yourself.

Remember: be positive and keep your dignity!

DO YOU THINK THAT THIS IS NECESSARY AND DO YOU REALLY THINK THAT I’LL ANSWER?

This is especially good answer if you are in a group. It will show the other person that you won’t give the expected irate response but you will respond in a calm, cool and controlled way. If they answer “Yes” to these questions, you can just reply with: “Well, it seems like today is not your lucky day,” and finish with the conversation.

WHAT YOU SAID ALMOST HURT MY FEELINGS

Sarcasm always helps in these situations. In this way you will maintain your positive mood and handle the rude person in a mature way.

YES, YOU ARE RIGHT.

Even though some people simply can’t pronounce these words, they are extremely effective in dealing with rude people because they will make the other person think that they are right and put an end to the conversation. Maybe you won’t be as satisfied as you would be by the previous tactics, at least you will preserve your positive energy, and that’s our goal, isn’t it?

YOU ARE ALWAYS READY TO SAY SOMETHING NEGATIVE, DON’T YOU?

This will make them realize that their choice of conversation topics needs a little revision and that they should reconsider what they are talking about in the future. It will also change the focus from you to the person who is being rude to you. You are probably not the only one this person is rude to, so with this comment you will make them aware of their toxic behavior and will save not only your nerves but the nerves to the other people who have a contact with this person too.

I LOVE YOU AND I LOVE MYSELF AS WELL.

This can be applied to close people like your friends, family members or partner. Saying it to your boss is not recommended. If you ask how this phrase can help you deal with rude people, here is the answer. Kindness is the best weapon for fighting negativity! This phrase in particular, shows the other person that you love life, you love yourself and you love them – you cannot feel more positive than this. Soon after you say this, the other person will realize that their comments are totally powerless. People who act rudely are not used to kind reactions, so they will be too surprise to think of a proper response.

These words are able to improve the whole energy in the room and will probably lead to more positive conversation. So, if you have a chance to try them and see the other person’s reaction.

LAUGH

This is definitely a reaction that nobody would expect from you and will catch the offender off guard. Laughing can also make any situation look less serious and the offender will know for sure that their comments can affect neither your feelings nor your current mood.

To Conclude: You are the one responsible for your own reactions, so always choose happiness!

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