How many times in your life have you heard other people saying: “Hey? What happened to you? You’ve changed a lot!”
You are the different person you were the previous year. You won’t be the same person the next year either. We know that not all the changes are intentional; some of them are caused by certain experiences through life.
Below we offer you 7 main signs that indicate you are undergoing certain changes and becoming the person you are meant to be.
BEING ALONE IS NOT A PROBLEM ANYMORE
Although you don’t like to be lonely, you are not afraid of being alone anymore. You realize that just a few people have the same type of energy as you, so instead of going with the flow, you decide to be yourself in order to save and protect your energy and peace. Instead of spending time with people who drain your energy, you know that sometimes you can be your best company, so you don’t mind being alone.
YOU KNOW YOU ARE NOT PERFECT BUT YOU STILL HAVE SELF-RESPECT
You like being yourself. You’ve accepted your own faults and you don’t fight against them anymore. When someone criticizes you, you see it only as a way to become better. You don’t feel offended when someone corrects your deeds. You don’t feel angry at yourself every time you make a certain mistake but instead you try to turn every mistake into lesson of how to be better next time.
YOU LET GO OF ALL THE TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS
Because you already know yourself well, you also know what exactly you expect from a person. You know that you should be valued and respected, so you are never willing to settle down for anything less than you deserve. You don’t have time and nerves for people and relationships that destroy your peace and bring out the worst out of you. Long story short, life has taught you that some goodbyes are worth saying for your own good.
YOU TRUST PEOPLE LESS THAN YOU USED TO IN THE PAST
You no longer talk about your life, future plans and intentions with everyone around you. Your circle of friends has become smaller. There are just a few closest friends who know everything about you. When you meet someone new, you prefer spending considerable time with them, get to know them well and then see if they are really worthy of your trust.
YOU RARELY DO SOMETHING INTERESTING
You invest most of the time in yourself. You don’t have time for conversations that don’t mean anything to you. Also hanging out with people you hardly know is irritating for you. So how your perfect weekend looks like? It’s probably staying in bed with your favorite book in your hands and hot coffee next to you. But from time to time you hang out with a few of your best friends too.
YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT SANDNESS IS
Sometimes you won’t feel good. But your strong and picky mentality won’t let that be so obvious. You will feel the sadness deep in your soul and you will be the one to holds your own hand. You’ve realized that no matter how hard we try to put some order in our life, we are all just human beings and some wishes and plans will never come true. That’s how life functions and you accept it as it is.
YOU VALUE YOUR OWN TIME MORE THAN YOU USED TO
“Is this really important?”; “Will this situation or person teach me something new?”; “Should I react or pay attention to this?”; “Is this activity worth my time?” These and many more questions appear in your head the moment you decide whether you should go somewhere or be with someone. You know exactly what your life goals are and you are very careful where you invest your precious time. You only follow your life goals and you will never dedicate to do something that seems unimportant to you.